Dating Advice
Wow...so I was so tired this weekend. Saturday night I went to bed at 6 p.m....woke up at 8 the next morning and was late for Sunday School! Sigh. At least I am relatively well-rested. I did most of my Christmas shopping yesterday afternoon. I still have to buy gifts for my nephews and nieces, as well as my mom and my grandparents.
I have a job interview with the land surveying company this afternoon. Wish me the best, friends!
A lot of people have posed the question: Should a guy persue a girl, or should a girl be more aggressive? Well, I am a bit old-fashioned: I think a guy should DEFINITELY persue the girl if he likes her. However, a girl can give some cues to indicate that she wouldn't say no to a date. I have liked many guys over the years, and I waited for them to persue me. They ended up persuing other women.
The moral? 1.) Pray for your future mate. Not just, "God, bring me my future mate!," but pray that they will have joy and peace and that they will grow closer to the Lord. 2.) Persue a closer relationship with God through reading the Word, praying, helping others, etc. 3.) And if you happen to meet a guy/gal you are interested in, persue a friendship. Say hi to them. Smile, smile, smile. Even if a dating relationship doesn't work out, you'll at least have a friend. 4.) If they aren't interested in you, it's not because they are evil or bad people. It's because they have different interests.
Okay, now I will get off my dating soapbox.
I have a job interview with the land surveying company this afternoon. Wish me the best, friends!
A lot of people have posed the question: Should a guy persue a girl, or should a girl be more aggressive? Well, I am a bit old-fashioned: I think a guy should DEFINITELY persue the girl if he likes her. However, a girl can give some cues to indicate that she wouldn't say no to a date. I have liked many guys over the years, and I waited for them to persue me. They ended up persuing other women.
The moral? 1.) Pray for your future mate. Not just, "God, bring me my future mate!," but pray that they will have joy and peace and that they will grow closer to the Lord. 2.) Persue a closer relationship with God through reading the Word, praying, helping others, etc. 3.) And if you happen to meet a guy/gal you are interested in, persue a friendship. Say hi to them. Smile, smile, smile. Even if a dating relationship doesn't work out, you'll at least have a friend. 4.) If they aren't interested in you, it's not because they are evil or bad people. It's because they have different interests.
Okay, now I will get off my dating soapbox.
4 Comments:
At 9:00 PM,
Anonymous said…
Or the girlies could get their crushes Christmas gifts to give cues to their affection. Or tickets to the gun show.
-- Gertrude
At 9:21 PM,
Reagan said…
**blush**
At 7:53 AM,
Reagan said…
I think not. But I'll let that go.
At 9:18 PM,
cameron sharpe said…
This points are valuable and important, give a try if you get back your ex boyfriend then its well and good, and if not its better to start with new life, reason is why to care for those person who does not care for you.
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